The message of Doctor Who when I was younger was "Men! You don't need to use violence to solve your problems. You can be calm and use your wits and confidence."
What rankles me the most about Chibnell's most recent story-line is that it adds the caveat "...if you were born a girl".
In a society where unpopular and impressionable men are getting more and more aggressive and entitled it just seems like such a loss.
Whenever I think about it it makes me feel "punchy".