 i’ve had enough of your failure to mow the lawn so i’ve had the whole thing dug up and replaced with a japanese sand garden.  so i don’t have to mow any more?  no, and i don’t have to complain to you about mowing anymore.   |  we both win.  yes, we both win.   | one month later,..  the lawn needs raking into intricate patterns reflecting our current tao. again?!!  |